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Richard Di Castri's avatar

Another brilliant and timely piece! - In my middle 70's now - caring for my elderly life partner through Cancer and dementia these past three years - seemingly a sufficient catastrophe to snuff-out any and all creativity. My studio has become a storage space for the building mess and chaos of home life - trying to keep it all together when I'm only able to grab a few hours of sleep between the endless rounds of care-giving

This Christmas brought magic unexpectedly, in the recognition that my "art" my vocation has become all acts of caring and love - to providing myself as medium to my partner no longer able to navigate the world which has become frightening to him. This awakening delivered me from the exhaustion and feelings of helplessness - that somehow fate was cruel and unfair.

I look upon the body of my paintings....particularly the ones which confirmed my life at a deeper strata, as a legacy of the life I lived previously. Now I step fully into this late phase, not lamenting what is lost, but accepting that another purpose is brought forward for me to fulfill.

Thank you Matt, for your work which serves to reflect the deep reality of Magic immanent throughout the spectrum of life.

Matt Cardin's avatar

That's beautiful, Richard. Thank you for sharing this insight from your current place and experience. Al positive energy to both you and your partner.

Clintavo's avatar

Yes, both love and suffering can subdue the ego and serve as a path to the portal. The light and the dark both get us close. I’ve been feeling this too lately.

Matt Cardin's avatar

I know it's a place, a truth, that both you and I are intimately familiar with, Clint.

Clintavo's avatar

Yes, but I have tended to focus on the light path and have tried to avoid the dark one (I think you have been fascinated with the dark one for a long time). I'm learning that neither can be truly avoided forever and it's a real trick to transmute suffering, pain into a portal. Integrating the shadow, and all that jazz. This topic has been on my mind a lot lately.

Matt Cardin's avatar

Yes. My attraction to the darkness and its path has mutated and moderated over the past decade. It's both a present reality and, in a real sense, a vestigial artifact. Or maybe more accurate, it has become recontextualized in a broader picture. The feeling is that this was all organic and inevitable.

Grimalkin's avatar

Wow, thanks, Matt! I'm really enjoying your "thoughts, quotations, and fragments". I already own and have read Lachman's biography of Colin Wilson, which I also really loved. I find Wilson to be one of the more interesting authors, as is Gary Lachman.

Matt Cardin's avatar

Agreed on both counts! Gary seems the perfect biographer for Wilson, what with his symapthetic sensibility, expansive interests (much like Wilson himself), and critical sensibility.

I'm glad you're enjoying these posts.

Ryan D. Hurd's avatar

thanks for the shout out. I have been thinking about the cosmic horror as spirituality recently bc it's still missing in psychological treatments of nightmares, to this day, as well as missing in contemporary liberal religious circles that I sit in too. so as usual both science and religion turning away from this vital way of knowing. Awe can be scary. We learn about the cosmos through the tremendum. that's important.

Matt Cardin's avatar

Thank you, Ryan. Including for all the interesting thoughts and explorations.

Ethan Kreul's avatar

i like how you are drawing out into the open, the tension between inner calling and measurable success.

Jesús Olmo's avatar

· Salid a cielo abierto ·

( · Come Out Into the Open Sky · )

by Jesús Olmo

· dedicated to Meredith Spearman (Maze to Metanoia) ·

“What I tell you in the dark, speak in the daylight;

what is whispered in your ear, proclaim from the roofs.”

-Matthew 10:27

Come out, come out,

wherever you are,

you watchers of the sudden lights,

you who stood in fields

gone silver and speechless,

you who felt the air thicken

and the hours bend.

Come out, you who saw

what you cannot footnote,

you who heard the hum

beneath the hum of things,

you who woke with your heart beating

like a trapped bird

and no language large enough

to hold it.

Come out,

you keepers of the unsayable.

You who folded your memory

like contraband

and tucked it under years

of ordinary days.

You who learned the weight of silence

and wore it without complaint.

Come out, you who saw their disbelief

before you ever spoke.

You who read the doubt

already forming in their eyes.

You who imagined the careful smiles,

the softened voices,

before a single word

left your mouth.

You who never told,

because you had already seen

the look.

Come out, you rural Ishmaels

of midnight highways,

you apartment-dwellers

of flickering ceilings,

you children who counted stars

that moved

when stars should not move.

They always say

it has to be seen

to be believed.

Well — you saw.

You saw!

Come out, you who built entire lives

around an absence —

around a bright, unmarked crater

no one else would admit

was there.

You who married, worked, aged,

while circling that gravity.

You who called it stress, or dream, or fever —

though you knew,

You knew

it was not stress, nor dream, nor fever,

but something that would not be named —

though it stood in you

like a second spine.

Come out, you who fear the word “crazy”

more than you fear the memory.

You who chose silence over ridicule,

sanity over truth,

belonging over bewilderment,

a steady wage over the risk of being undone,

bread on the table

over the bright ruin

of being disbelieved.

Come out, you who have carried

the loneliness of the unbelievable.

You who became careful,

precise, small.

Come out into the open sky!

Not to prove,

not to persuade,

Not to perform your wound

for the curious.

Come out because what happened to you

happened to you.

Because astonishment is not a crime.

Because terror leaves marks

whether or not

a camera was present.

Because wonder can fracture a life

as surely as grief.

Come out, not as spectacle

but as witnesses.

Come out, not to be judged

but to be met.

Not to be diagnosed

but to be heard.

Your silence was a shelter.

Your silence was a strategy.

Your silence was survival.

But you are not required to live forever

at the edge of your own story.

There are others who have stood

in the same impossible clearing.

Others who have felt time loosen

like a button coming undone.

You are not the only ones

who have looked up

and been looked at.

Come out, you custodians

of the bright unknown.

You who carry both dread and radiance

in the same trembling hands.

Come out into the daylight

where the sky is wide enough

for memory, for doubt,

for fracture, for awe.

Come out,

and let the story —

let the truth —

breathe at last.